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    living with woman with Borderline Personality Disorder; I am an abused guy

    i'm fucking abused, man.

    this bitch, last 8 years, i'm feelng down.

    who has experiecned this trouble? how did you get through it?

    is there any hope for her or do i have to jet?

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    i can't save the world.

    when i met her, i was weak and she was weak. now, i am strong but she is weak.

    i can't save the world people.

    i want YOU to tell me that it's okay to turn my back on this shit and never look back.

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    Dude... if you are being abused mentally, emotionally, or physically... it's OK.
    GTFO.
    Seriously.
    Not later... now, today, ASAP.
    Call some people to help you move, whatever you need to do.
    “You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Return of Dado View Post
    i can't save the world.

    when i met her, i was weak and she was weak. now, i am strong but she is weak.

    i can't save the world people.

    i want YOU to tell me that it's okay to turn my back on this shit and never look back.
    If you need us to tell you that, you are not strong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brahnamin View Post
    If you need us to tell you that, you are not strong.
    Yes, he is. Turning your back on someone of 8 years is scary shit.

    Dado, get some help and GTFO!
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    Quote Originally Posted by patski View Post
    Yes, he is. Turning your back on someone of 8 years is scary shit.

    Dado, get some help and GTFO!
    Yes it is, particularly with someone with any kind of serious personality disorder - even borderline.

    *shrUg*

    But I will never understand why anyone would come to internet people for something like this. Not strong. A wee bit stupid, IMO. Walking away from someone like that requires the help of meatworld friends and family, people who can physically be there if/when things go south.

    I don't care how tight the community you're involved in is. If it's out on the web it's not enough help. If you need their approval to do something that plainly desperately needs doing, sorry I don't view that as a *strength* . . . nor do I much believe in coddling people.

    For the record, Dado, having been in a 3 year relationship with a sometimes abusive bipolar woman with DID, I agree with all the people who are hollering GTFO. I don't even want to think how that would've ended for me without the very real intervention of a multi-year prison sentence. So have a plan and a system of support - as in people from your life (and maybe even hers) to run interference, whatever sort you might require (place to stay, intermediaries, whatever, you didn't give us enough info to call that part for you - but have it in place ahead of time and choose people you trust - ie - who won't tell her ahead of time).
    Last edited by brahnamin; 07-16-2012 at 02:48 PM. Reason: To replace MPD with the more proper DID

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    Quote Originally Posted by brahnamin View Post
    If you need us to tell you that, you are not strong.
    + 100

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanas View Post
    + 100
    Yeah, maybe, but it was still an asshat thing for me to say to someone in Dado's situation, and if I'd taken a second to note that it was coming from a forum regular (ie-someone who knows folks here and can legitimately expect their support) and not just some random newbie running to interweb strangers for approval, I'd likely have held my tongue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Return of Dado View Post
    i can't save the world.

    when i met her, i was weak and she was weak. now, i am strong but she is weak.

    i can't save the world people.

    i want YOU to tell me that it's okay to turn my back on this shit and never look back.
    Uh, this is the part where you tell her to fuck off, and leech someone else's happiness.
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    its ok to turn around and never look back

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