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    Quote Originally Posted by quelsen View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Apex Predator View Post
    The issue with this, and the other people encouraging him to stay, is that staying with someone with BPD is an excellent way to die, end up in the hospital or jail, or worse.
    Heh.

    Now you're getting it.

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    Having dealt with a friend with BPD, I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone with it. If you're abused in any way then it's time to get out. 8 years is a long time, but if you haven't made any headway in the respect department then you should get out. I can imagine it's pretty scary (I've been with my husband for almost 10 years and the idea of something like that happening frightens me) but you said it yourself, you cannot save the world. You need to think about yourself, your life, and it's a good sign that you're here. That means you are trying to improve your life. If she's actively holding you back.. How long can you live your life for someone else?

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    Treat yourself to some space for reflection, say a weekend getaway to Sarasota, Florida?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarthFriendly View Post
    Why is everyone assuming that dildo is the injured party here, or that his description of his s.o. is accurate?
    Because we watch him on a hidden camera live video feed 24/7. You didn't get the link?
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    Quote Originally Posted by DarthFriendly View Post
    Why is everyone assuming that dildo is the injured party here, or that his description of his s.o. is accurate?
    I'm holding out for more proof . . . .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackcatbone View Post
    I'm holding out for more proof . . . .
    This...I want photos of blood and accompanying police reports.

    Or not.
    I responded with ...If the situation is as stated GTFO.
    That doesn't require any further proof.
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    Either way, doesn't matter, she could be a saint, he's not happy, get out.

    SERIOUSLY if you dislike your relationship, get the fack out before you have kids

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    Quote Originally Posted by cori93437 View Post
    This...I want photos of blood and accompanying police reports.

    Or not.
    I responded with ...If the situation is as stated GTFO.
    That doesn't require any further proof.
    Yeah, I decided to sit this one out. He had enough people telling him what to do if it was in fact the case, but given his track record for shittiness, well, you know . . .

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlaC View Post
    Don't listen to what Saoirse said- no divorce lawyer has ever walked into someone's life and demanded to clean up someone else's mess.
    confused, what did i say? i was only pointing out that the lawyer is out to make money, so be wary. if he's married and she's as described, there's a 99% chance that he will need a lawyer. he should just remember that the lawyer's not a friend.
    Quote Originally Posted by DarthFriendly View Post
    He describes a woman he's been living with for 8 years as a "psychotic bitch" and no one seems to question this.

    "Awwwww. I feel so bad for you, get out as soon as powssibwell, you have to think of yourself...." seems to be the most common response.

    Anyone who's read dildo's bullshit would have to wonder that if after 8 years of putting up with that crap any woman might not a little testy.

    Where's the sisterhood at bitches?

    You're just taking a man's side on scant evidence.

    "Yeah, you go dildo, run out on the woman who's been paying your bills, cooking, cleaning, supporting and wiping up after you for 8 years. You deserve better."

    Not that any of that is accurate, just wondering about the assumptions people are making here.
    it's definitely crossed my mind. but then i realized that if he's describing his SO as a bitch, she's better off without him.

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