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    Am I being as ass?

    Having the UFC fight tomorrow night.....7 men coming over to watch it (most of them I have trained with). My fiance will not be there as she could care less and does not want to be around that much Testosterone yelling at a TV. One friend wants to bring is girlfriend over to the event. She will be the only girl if she comes. I have stated this to him and he is not getting it at all and it got to the point where I told him she can't come.

    Is there a problem with a guy's night?

    Is this just part of the pussification of men as this is not the first time something like this has happend to me with guys.

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    That dude's whupped if he can't leave his girlfriend for a little while to have a man-night. Is he stupid or something?
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    No, that's completely reasonable, and your right.

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    as a girl, i wouldn't want to go and be the only girl unless i wanted to watch the fight too

    so no, you aren't being an ass to not want awkwardness
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    yeah you are

    I mean there's so many ants in my eyes! And there are so many TVs, microwaves, radios... I think, I can't, I'm not 100% sure what we have here in stock.. I don't know because I can't see anything! Our prices, I hope, aren't too low!

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    No, there is absolutely no problem with a guy's night. This coming from a woman. I encourage this, just as girls need girl's nights. It's good for both. That said, if the girl in question is the type that fits right in with the yelling, swearing and other guys stuff and everyone was fine with her being there then inclusion isn't necessarily about pussification. But, your house, your rules, no girls allowed means no girls allowed. You aren't being an ass saying so.

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    If she's really into UFC and is totally comfortable around boys acting like boys, then you should let her come. Some women are cool like that you know. If she or he are just in love and want to spend every moment together holding hands and making goo-goo eyes, you are totally in the right. Women are very comfortable shutting guys out when they want to, guys should be too.
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    You're absolutely right. I mean it would be worse if you had to ask him to leave during the fight should all that testosterone turn him on & he starts getting it on with his girl. It happens. Right?
    Just tell him "Look, dude. I love ya, but NO CHICKS!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr. Bork Bork View Post
    You're absolutely right. I mean it would be worse if you had to ask him to leave during the fight should all that testosterone turn him on & he starts getting it on with his girl. It happens. Right?
    Just tell him "Look, dude. I love ya, but NO CHICKS!"
    i can't tell you how many times i've had to be escorted out of businesses for just that reason
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    yeah you are

    I mean there's so many ants in my eyes! And there are so many TVs, microwaves, radios... I think, I can't, I'm not 100% sure what we have here in stock.. I don't know because I can't see anything! Our prices, I hope, aren't too low!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackcatbone View Post
    No, there is absolutely no problem with a guy's night. This coming from a woman. I encourage this, just as girls need girl's nights. It's good for both. That said, if the girl in question is the type that fits right in with the yelling, swearing and other guys stuff and everyone was fine with her being there then inclusion isn't necessarily about pussification. But, your house, your rules, no girls allowed means no girls allowed. You aren't being an ass saying so.

    That is the excuse he is trying to convey is that she "is a fan of UFC" the problem is that it is false as she doesn't know a thing about UFC at all.

    If she does come she will sit in a corner and just try to suck face with my bro and he will be all cuddly and quiet as the other guy's in the room "rage" in a very primal way!!!

    The reality is that he won't come because I didn't invite his woman for a guy's night I throw out opportunites for him and it just fails. I invite them over as a couple all the time so i just don't see the problem here but it is out there for him as I think he is a little bit "whipped"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darwin17 View Post
    The reality is that he won't come because I didn't invite his woman for a guy's night I throw out opportunites for him and it just fails. I invite them over as a couple all the time so i just don't see the problem here but it is out there for him as I think he is a little bit "whipped"
    Yeah, he sounds whipped and maybe a bit like he doesn't fit in with the "guys night" either.

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