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    today's dose of drama

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    I spoke to the mental health folks again: what gives? Apparently, FiL got the phone message for mad SiL from them, rang back and said: no, no nothing to see here; thanks, but no thanks. (It is entirely in keeping that he did this without consulting SiL or MiL - if he had someone would have rung us/turned up on the doorstep to have hysterics.) The CAT team were ready to roll anyway when they realised they didn't have all of husband's phone number, they were missing a digit. By the time that got sorted they ran out of time. However, it seems as though today is the day.

    I am bricking it. Anyone got a good poem? Found one... today is definitely an Elizabeth Smart kind of a day.

    O Poor People

    Let us invoke a healthy heart-breaking
    Towards the horrible world:
    Let us say O poor people
    How can they help being so absurd,
    Misguided, abused, misled?

    With unsifted saving graces jostling about
    On a mucky medley of needs,
    Like love-lit shit,
    Year after cyclic year
    The unidentifiable flying god is missed.

    Emotions sit in their heads disguised as judges,
    Or are twisted to look like mathematical formulae,
    And only a scarce god-given scientist notices
    His trembling lip melting the heart of the rat.

    Whoever gave us the idea somebody loved us?
    Far in our wounded depths faint memories cry,
    A vision flickers below subliminally
    But immanence looms unbearably: TURN IT OFF! they hiss.
    Elizabeth Smart

    ETA - the second dose
    Team got there and FiL would not let them through the front gate. They left after saying that mad SiL must get seen by her family doctor and a report sent to the mental health team. However, SiL doesn't have a medicare number let alone a doctor.

    The fight will continue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by badgergirl View Post
    I spoke to the mental health folks again: what gives? Apparently, FiL got the phone message for mad SiL from them, rang back and said: no, no nothing to see here; thanks, but no thanks. (It is entirely in keeping that he did this without consulting SiL or MiL - if he had someone would have rung us/turned up on the doorstep to have hysterics.) The CAT team were ready to roll anyway when they realised they didn't have all of husband's phone number, they were missing a digit. By the time that got sorted they ran out of time. However, it seems as though today is the day.

    I am bricking it. Anyone got a good poem? Found one... today is definitely an Elizabeth Smart kind of a day.

    O Poor People

    Let us invoke a healthy heart-breaking
    Towards the horrible world:
    Let us say O poor people
    How can they help being so absurd,
    Misguided, abused, misled?

    With unsifted saving graces jostling about
    On a mucky medley of needs,
    Like love-lit shit,
    Year after cyclic year
    The unidentifiable flying god is missed.

    Emotions sit in their heads disguised as judges,
    Or are twisted to look like mathematical formulae,
    And only a scarce god-given scientist notices
    His trembling lip melting the heart of the rat.

    Whoever gave us the idea somebody loved us?
    Far in our wounded depths faint memories cry,
    A vision flickers below subliminally
    But immanence looms unbearably: TURN IT OFF! they hiss.
    Elizabeth Smart

    ETA - the second dose
    Team got there and FiL would not let them through the front gate. They left after saying that mad SiL must get seen by her family doctor and a report sent to the mental health team. However, SiL doesn't have a medicare number let alone a doctor.

    The fight will continue.
    Damn.... sorry that the drama is so dramatic.........

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    That sucks, I don't envy you one bit....and why can't something be easy.

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    I spose cos life is never easy - however Badger hold your head high. You have done good girl, and please do not
    think otherwise.
    We do what we think is right at the time, and trust me, many of us would have done the same.
    This will work itself out, you can now relax.
    Hoping hubsta can see the rarionale
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    ...small steps....

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    I am thinking about the team arriving and leaving again, and something is amiss, probably about the way I am understanding things, but here goes: the part where FIL refuses them entry I get - his castle and his right not to let anybody into it. BUT - the mad SIL is of legal age and doesn't the team have the right to somehow force her appearance? I see the two as separate things. If FIL has no special court-filed guardianship over mad SIL, then she is kind of on her own legally, no matter where she resides, and the team should be able to bypass the FIL.
    I have a mantra that I have spouted for years... "If I eat right, I feel right. If I feel right, I exercise right. If I exercise right, I think right. If I think right, I eat right..." Phil-SC

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crabbcakes View Post
    I am thinking about the team arriving and leaving again, and something is amiss, probably about the way I am understanding things, but here goes: the part where FIL refuses them entry I get - his castle and his right not to let anybody into it. BUT - the mad SIL is of legal age and doesn't the team have the right to somehow force her appearance? I see the two as separate things. If FIL has no special court-filed guardianship over mad SIL, then she is kind of on her own legally, no matter where she resides, and the team should be able to bypass the FIL.
    My understanding is they didn't want to force matters that day, not that they wouldn't force matters ever. They're talking to the youngest sister to get her take on it. Oldest brother is also going to report in. Husband and I had a talk and after I threatened to call the council and get the whole place dismantled to get her out he came round. Believe me that is still an option.
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    Today is brought to you by our old friend Philip Larkin and the letter F:

    This Be The Verse
    BY PHILIP LARKIN

    They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
    They may not mean to, but they do.
    They fill you with the faults they had
    And add some extra, just for you.

    But they were fucked up in their turn
    By fools in old-style hats and coats,
    Who half the time were soppy-stern
    And half at one anotherís throats.

    Man hands on misery to man.
    It deepens like a coastal shelf.
    Get out as early as you can,
    And donít have any kids yourself.
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    I'm guessing that there's no improvement in the current situation then, judging by the todays poem?

    At least the hubster came round, even if it did take the threat it did! Is it still an option?

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    Youngest sister has made it all about *feelings* and how *special* every member of her family is in an email to everyone. Husband told me not to respond. I did. With gusto. I focused on two things: the state of mad sister and the state of the house. I very clearly stated that if this was my family rather than in laws I would have called in the cavalry years and years ago that this was not a value judgement on anyone, or the family as a whole, but that external help was clearly required.

    I doubt FiL and MiL will ever speak to me again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by badgergirl View Post
    Youngest sister has made it all about *feelings* and how *special* every member of her family is in an email to everyone. Husband told me not to respond. I did. With gusto. I focused on two things: the state of mad sister and the state of the house. I very clearly stated that if this was my family rather than in laws I would have called in the cavalry years and years ago that this was not a value judgement on anyone, or the family as a whole, but that external help was clearly required.

    I doubt FiL and MiL will ever speak to me again.
    It takes a bunch o guts to speak out about this kind of thing, and it is especially hairy trying to do it without making anyone feel like they are getting their toes stomped with golf shoes.... good for you for speaking up.

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