I learned this trick long time ago: I do what I want to do at all times. I do not try to get the boyfriend to do what I want to do. I say, I'm going to xyz, would you like to come, and then I go whether he comes or not. He'll say let's go do xyz and if I want to do it I will and if I don't, I won't. That way we do stuff together that we both want to do. Sometimes I just say I'm going to go do xyz and then I don't ask him to come. I like my time to myself. And I like it when he does the same. Then the house is all mine.
Originally Posted by erinzest
When it comes to food and drink, I eat and drink what I like and don't worry about what others are doing. If they want margaritas and chips and I don't, I just order the stuff I like. If I have to eat guacamole with a spoon, I will do it.
Female, 5'3", 48, Starting weight: 163lbs. Current weight: 135.
Starting squat: 45lbs. Current squat: 145 x 4.