Hey Leida, wow... it really sounds like you're on a journey with this! I'm a very intermittent reader (sorry) but I do want to offer you encouragement and hope that you'll get there.
I suppose you've journalled your food and noted if there were any triggers that make the scale roll back up? Do you measurements change when this happens?
"I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.
In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."
- Ray Peat