right, but that would have an opposite effect. fat padding would make a lady "tighter" not less likely to "split open." honestly, i have no clue how much fat is actually on the inside down there; i wouldn't think it's much. sure, more fat=bigger labia, but i wouldn't think you'd grow fat inside. *shrug*
my primal journal:
“You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.”
And that's why I'm here eating HFLC Primal/Paleo.
Noel Fielding (Vince Noir) from the Mighty Boosh is very attractive, IMO.
I'm a 5'-6" tall female.
SW: 212.4 lbs. February 14, 2013 (My second baby was born)
GW: 143 lbs.
Just keep going.
Mid-May-153 lbs. (Beach vacation!)
July-148 lbs.(family reunion)
September-143 lbs. or less
My sex drive is not really affected by physical attributes. I mean, some can help, but I've never had a "type". I like my partner to have some height on me, or at least broad shoulders, so I can get the nice, safe snuggly feeling. I do prefer lean/athletic bodies, but have been attracted to some thin and undefined dudes. Making me laugh is my #1 most important thing, making me feel safe is second. I am, perhaps, your stereotypical female in that I value emotional intimacy or sexual intimacy (in the romantic sense) over lust, but that is probably because I have had next to no sex drive for the past several years. Nothing in particular really "gets me going", but I do like a well-timed nibble during sexual activities. I think it's for the contrast in sensations because I can be hyper sensitive.
Journal on depression/anxiety
Currently trying to figure out WTF to eat (for IBS-C).
ah i see. so like, tiny frame. that *might* make sense.
my primal journal:
Peak weight on Standard American Diet: 316.8 lbs
Initial Weight When Starting Primal: 275 lbs
Current weight: 210.8 lbs
Goal weight: 220 lbs (or less): MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.
The way "ChooseMyPlate.gov" should have looked:
I have to admit I totally dig chubby women. (chubby as in: significant amounts of butt and belly, sufficient amounts of breast and padding everywhere). Not really sure in how far that makes sense from an "evolutionary point of view" and might be a bit strange with me being all paleo and doing lots of sports, but still.. I like it ;)
Completely different when it comes to men; with men I prefer the "athletic" type.
Of course, when it comes to a relationship other attributes probably matter a lot, but (well, especially from a sexual standpoint, of course) the looks are quite important, to me at least.