LOL, yeah, never be douchey to anyone. Period. Women, men, potential mates, employees... the list goes on. Nothing is uglier than "attractive" people that think their appearance means they can treat people like shit.it's just bad karma and bad strategy to be mean/condescending/douchey to people who don't attract you.
It's so high school.... the funny thing is that two girls used to be mercilessly mean about me being fat in high school.... specific comments about how I would never have a boyfriend because I was such a whale. 20 years later.... they are fat, single and having big nights out at the Melting Pot hitting on the waiter. Don't understand why thety are single.