I remember back when we were together the first time being out at a restaurant and running into one of his exes. She had a pretty face but she was seriously obese.
All the time we were together, he was always trying to feed me. I put on some weight even in the 6 months we had before my cancer diagnosis. Desserts, alcohol, second helpings. While I'm not blaming him for my weight gain while I was sick, I do think he helped the gain along by always putting food in front of me at a time when I was too upset to think straight.
I wonder if he is the kind of guy who prefers his women XL. Maybe that was the only kind of woman he could get to give him the time of day when he had his first face. Maybe a fat woman is less threatening because she doesn't have as many other options.
Thank you for your concern Mud Flinger. I informed him when he dropped me off that, if he ever came near me again, there would be a restraining order. And I have informed the security people at the front desk that he is not welcome here.