
Originally Posted by
zoebird
good plan on the hydration. I've found that to be the case, too. also, it's all about my cycle. have to do it mid-cycle or after, because otherwise my body's fighting anemia (even though i don't really have that problem overall).
in awesome news, my parents -- and particularly my dad -- are looking to take much bettre care of themselves. they haven't given up the coke-zero, but they are back on "south beach phase one" and they have been candy-free for 30 days now!
my dad has had some mobility problems over the last several years (as I've mentioned), and he recently started getting some physical therapy when he went to a doctor to see if he needed a hip replacement or had arthritis in his hip. turns out he just had a bursa and wasn't using his muscles properly to support himself, so he went to physical therapy and basically has minimal pain in that hip now!
this, apparently, got him thinking that the other aches and pains that he feels could be handled through movement, and so he asked me to help him. usually, he says "why don't you give something for your dad, huh?" but I never did because I knew that he lacked the motivation for some reason, and I didn't want to put in the amount of work that it takes to do a personal work-up for someone.
but this time, he asked me -- do you think that you could help me? do you think that if I did the yoga that I would get better? and I asked him a few questions and he answered them so honestly about really wanting to get better and feel better in his body -- because he wanted to have more fun with DS when he comes to visit us as well as when he visits my nephew. HIs internist told him that he could easily live 25-30 years, so long as he maintains his mobility. If he doesn't maintain his mobility, he's looking at 5-7 years once he gets into a wheel chair, which he saw as inevitable in the next 4 years.
I think that lit a fire in him.
So, i sent him the form that I send for clients like him -- people who really need something specialized to what their needs are -- and he filled it out. He also had his doctor, his podiatrist, and his physical therapist send me some assessments. We then spent about 2 hours of him describing his experiences physically, as well as many other aspects of his lifestyle.
We added a few supplements (such as vitamin D) to his regimen, as well as changing his evening pattern. He usually watches TV or plays around on his computer, which keeps him up late (it's the artificial light). So, I told my parents to go to candle light an hour before their bed time (maybe while watching TV but no other lights on, though they have night-lights on in their room so that they can get there safely -- so that's fine), and then for the last 30 minutes before going to sleep to listen to a meditation CD that I got them (it's brain entrainment, my dad finds that interesting).
They have been doing it for 3 nights now and "it's the best sleep ever" -- so we have progress!
I also gave my dad a really basic routine for before he gets out of bed -- building on what his physical therapist had him doing. It takes about 5 minutes, and he says that he already feels much better in the morning getting up after doing the routine.
Tomorrow, I video tape a 7 minute sequence of postures for him to do in the kitchen using the countertops and a sturdy chair as his props, so that he can work on getting some other discomforts out. He feels like doing 5 minutes in bed and 5-7 minutes in the kitchen is accessible, and so far he's already been doing the 5 minute bed time routine for the last 3 mornings as well.
I'm really proud of them for doing this, and my mom wanted a special video too, so I told her I'd make her a 10 minute one that she can do when she wants. Dad's a special needs client, so he's going to get more attention. She got jealous, but I told her she has her personal trainer to help her out, and so I'm helping him out.
Oh, and because of certain mobility issues, I recommended that he get a weekly massage in specific areas of his body. His podiatrist has a specialist on site who works on feet and ankles, but she also knows really good general sports massage therapists who can really work on the fascia and blood flow -- which is most important for him. I'd like him to get some lower body work (including glutes, etc). He's always been a bit shy about it, but I told him that people like me -- but are massage therapists -- *love* his kind of problems and are not going to judge how he looks. It's all about getting what he needs, and we nerds love that stuff.
He's already booked the foot/ankle massage at the clinic for thursday morning before they go into work, and the podiatrist and physical therapist are looking for the right sports massage therapist to meet his needs, and he'd like to book a weekly massage with *both*. I'm really proud of him for taking that step -- massage is vulnerable, particularly when you have painful spots in your body.
His goal is to be healthier at 70 than he was at 60, and if possible, get off of 3 of the 5 medications that he's on. I think it might be possible, and so does his internist. . . but it will take effort.