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    When you're expected to eat...

    Being a reporter is a tough job sometimes. I am invited to tons of things where there is free food. Sometimes I can manage. If I don't eat, people act offended, especially at smaller functions. Yesterday, I turned down a spaghetti lunch at an event I covered (and I love spaghetti). Today, I'm in the midst of a fast and a coworker just let me know there is pizza (from my fave pizza place in town, nonetheless) in the break room.

    Do I want to look like the majority of the people that eat said food? No.

    But, my coworkers often make snide remarks to me about what I'm eating or act offended because I don't want to partake in baby shower food or morning donuts. It may not help that I'm the youngest one in the office. The other women are a lot older than me and I work with a lot of men.

    At events or banquets, people practically try to shove food down my face. They also act offended if I don't want to eat. They don't understand; it's not that I don't want to eat because the food looks great! It's because I don't want to eat that kind of food.

    Same happens when I'm with family...but, anyways...

    How do you handle these situations? I know food allergies can be life threatening for some people, so I don't want to feign an allergy. Plus, these people have seen me partake from time to time. It's just irritating. I don't understand why people care if you eat or not.
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    Small office environments can be frustrating, I didn't do well at the last one I worked at. You may consider playing the allergy card. Also, emphasize that you don't eat between meals. People will be offended but that's their problem.

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    Edit: My editor just told me, "Go get some pizza! One slice won't hurt you!"

    Ugh. Eyes on the prize I guess!
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    At my last job my boss brought in pizza and donuts almost every day, plus there were all kinds of snacks and flavored coffee-mate for the coffee. He was the kind of guy that I swear would break your kneecaps if you didn't partake. At the time I was not on this diet. I packed on a lot of weight working there. After a while I really didn't want it sometimes and would just lie and say I already had some when he came around ordering people to go get some donuts.

    At the place where I work now, we have a weekly breakfast and I'll eat the egg/potato/sausage casseroles if someone brings that, but if it's just muffins and pastries I'll just grab a cup of coffee and say I forgot and already had a big breakfast at home. It's always true. When I eat the casseroles I'm just being a pig and having 2nd breakfast.
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    You could tell them that you feel you might be gluten sensitive and are trying to reduce those types of food for now? Most people won't argue with an argument that focuses on health and not weight loss.

    I'm kind of in the same boat. I IF almost everyday and my eating window doesn't open until later in the afternoon. I used to go to a lot of lunch events and I'm having to turn them down left and right. We always have goodies too but people are used to me saying no to them so they don't even ask me anymore. I have told a few people that I'm trying to be healthier and am cutting back on gluten and sugar.

    Good luck, that's frustrating!
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    Quote Originally Posted by 13blessings View Post
    You could tell them that you feel you might be gluten sensitive and are trying to reduce those types of food for now? Most people won't argue with an argument that focuses on health and not weight loss.

    I'm kind of in the same boat. I IF almost everyday and my eating window doesn't open until later in the afternoon. I used to go to a lot of lunch events and I'm having to turn them down left and right. We always have goodies too but people are used to me saying no to them so they don't even ask me anymore. I have told a few people that I'm trying to be healthier and am cutting back on gluten and sugar.

    Good luck, that's frustrating!
    I agree with this-- when health is the priority people support much more easily. Adding in something like "I think when I eat a balanced breakfast at home prior to work I tend to perform better and have more energy at the end of the day for interviews (or whatever you are doing)" is also a good idea, as it reinforces that not only is your decision good for you, but it also will help your company.

    It took my work a while to get used to my dietary habits... I've been at the same place for almost 2 years... :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by 13blessings View Post
    You could tell them that you feel you might be gluten sensitive and are trying to reduce those types of food for now? Most people won't argue with an argument that focuses on health and not weight loss.
    I totally agree!!! I usually say these foods just make me feel soooo crappy, which is true.

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    I've started using "wheat doesn't like me." How can that be argued with? It's not an allergy, but it will have unplesant side effects. If they push, ask if they want details
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    Quote Originally Posted by drssgchic View Post
    I've started using "wheat doesn't like me." How can that be argued with? It's not an allergy, but it will have unplesant side effects. If they push, ask if they want details
    I get pleasure from watching people's faces when I share too much information (or tell them I don't like babies), so this would definately be my choice and I wouldn't wait until they push to start sharing the details, like how gassy it makes me. They'll run.
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    Quote Originally Posted by drssgchic View Post
    I've started using "wheat doesn't like me." How can that be argued with? It's not an allergy, but it will have unplesant side effects. If they push, ask if they want details
    ^^This!! I had a guy today tell me his triple chocolate cake was just what I needed, and I smiled and said.. "No way.. pure poison dude.. pure poison!" and laughed and he laughed and it was all good.
    I had to eat some food the other day, after getting tattoo work done and I was ravenous and tried ordering the best I could considering most restaurants are based in carb mentality.. corn bread to start, a salad topped with peas and corn (scraped off that corn) and grilled chicken with sauteed spinach over wild rice.. uhg!!
    so I had a piece of corn bread, got rid of the corn on the salad and ate half the entree.. the next day I had anxiety, breast tenderness, lymph soreness, joint pain and was wiped out..
    its just not for me anymore..
    today I had this HUGE burger with all the fixins, loaded with bacon and blue cheese crumbles without the bun and my husband ordered the same.. the restaurant owner was more than happy to oblige, although he was the one offering the poison cake! lol
    so when those moments come up.. I just fall back on a joking attitude or say, "truly, these foods will make me sicker than a dog.. looks great, so have one for me!" or how about " I have a rare genetic disorder... "
    People tend to pooh-pooh diets, but if you put it in the framework of "it makes me physically ill," they'll leave you alone..
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