So much the better if he is harmless. Still, we have to be very careful with harmless lonely men. We can build up quite an emotional attachment to them without ever meaning to. (Not trying to tell you what to do. I kind of like musing out loud.)
It does sound like your kitchen is a cheerful, welcoming place. Pictures? Oh right, no camera. Never mind. Cozy doesn't seem to be in style right now, and I think women are more swayed by home makeover shows and designer rooms. Maybe that's why they don't say anything. (Just talking through my hat. Again.)
5'2", 55 years, Primal since April. Pre-Primal weight loss, from 216.6 to 157.8
Primal low: 140.2 (Dec. 3) Goal weight: 135?
Main Primal goal: beating back my CFS enough to function more normally and start writing again
More and more, our life has been governed by specialists, who know too little of what lies outside their province to be able to know enough about what takes place within it.
- Lewis Mumford