I'm sure you'll find a way to make it all work, Tomi. Maybe God is trying to stretch you. You know the verse about entertaining angels unawares, right?
My inlaws just lined up various tables in the basement for a very long time. Nobody cared if the decor was grey cement, LOL! We strung up a few decorations and enjoyed ourselves. Marrying into an Italian family taught me a lot about hospitality and generosity. My own family gatherings had been more like a dozen at most too, so it was quite an adaptation.
Go with the flow, you might even enjoy yourself.
5'2", 55 years, Primal since April. Pre-Primal weight loss, from 216.6 to 157.8
Primal low: 140.2 (Dec. 3) Goal weight: 135?
Main Primal goal: beating back my CFS enough to function more normally and start writing again
More and more, our life has been governed by specialists, who know too little of what lies outside their province to be able to know enough about what takes place within it.
- Lewis Mumford