How long have you been eating like this now?
You drink 1-2 glasses of wine per day?
How many cups of water do you drink per day?
The cheese should be ok but maybe try to take it out for a couple of weeks and add some veggies instead and see if you notice any weight loss.
"8 oz coffee
2 tablespoons cocoa powder
1 tsp maple syrup (I measure it precisely)
splash of heavy cream" - This should be ok but maybe take out the cocoa powder and maple syrup and see what happens.