When it comes to hormones, averages don't mean much. It's so highly individual. Some women get hyper-fertile as soon as they drop the birth control, others can go a long time before their fertility returns.
I got pregnant while nursing my first-born, without having had a period. When hormone levels change, each body reacts differently. Some women have periods with no ovulation: I had the opposite. Same thing with menopause; anything can happen.
Which is a long-winded way of saying there's just no telling how your body will react. It won't necessarily have anything to do with averages. You can look it up anyway, to have a rough idea, but there is no normal. Or rather, there are many, many normals.
Anyway, glad your morale has lifted. If your husband's attitude continues to be a concern, try to find some time when you are very calm and relatively happy to discuss it with him. And it is nice to see that he makes a visible effort to do better. If you let him know that you see that, and appreciate it, it will make the discussion that much easier. If you give him the impression that you trust him to want to make things work, let him know what you really need to see from him, and what you yourself are working on from your side, you are putting all the chances on your side to have a productive conversation on this.
5'2", 55 years, Primal since April. Pre-Primal weight loss, from 216.6 to 157.8
Primal low: 140.2 (Dec. 3) Goal weight: 135?
Main Primal goal: beating back my CFS enough to function more normally and start writing again
More and more, our life has been governed by specialists, who know too little of what lies outside their province to be able to know enough about what takes place within it.
- Lewis Mumford