Not necessarily off topic- is he single and sensible?
Totally ot, but Nix, I have a friend that lives in Alfred, NY! He's a chemistry professor at the university. Small world.
Um...single yes. He's Long Island Italian, and a little wacky (ok, really wacky). What else do you expect from us PhD chemists? We're all a little off
Well that's why I asked if he was sensible instead of smart. I figured smart was a given But as long as his whack is compatible with hers . . .
Oh honey so sorry- guys are so lazy it seems when it boils down to wellness. I've had this happen to me and currently have a bastard around who loves to hate down on me now that I've lost the 10 lbs of muscle mass that made me look normal. He called me overweight Monday night....... I weigh 90 lbs and sure my body fat% isn't perfect but whatever. You get the last laugh- drop him like a hot potato and tighten up. Figure out what is wrong with your system and fix it. Ditch the dairy, sleep more, find a special supplement , lower the calories, raise the calories, do intermittent fasting- whatever. Just get on with your process and say buh bye.
sorry for dissenting here, but implying that she should fix whatever and then ditch him (or the other way around) seems kind of silly. just ditch him. either he's trying to control how you look, or he's just expressing himself to you, but either way you don't want to be around the dude. it has nothing to do with how you look, but about his personality.
my primal journal:
yeah, just say bye and lay out exactly why. because he'll be confused
yeah you are
Build a man a fire and he's warm for a day. Set a man on fire and he's warm for the rest of his life.