If I gained 5lbs because I purely let myself go. I would accept it, whatever. However, with all the other stuff, and honestly its just stress weight on my waist that will be off in a few weeks and I'll go right back down to 120lb. The problem here is that instead of being understanding and sympathetic to the situation it was straight to "well you're not as thin as you were when I first met you". So, it's not man bashing. It's a-hole bashing. Kick'm when they're down types.