I have to agree about the temptation to fail is often in our 'strong' areas. We think we can manage ok only to find we just blew it big time Sabine, I think you should aim for your initial goal and when you get close you can reassess. I am also with holding judgement on where I should be. I used to be about the same weight as my goal weight (135 lbs) when I was in highschool, I was not super lean though. I think I am more muscular than I was then although I was very active ... hope we get to amaze ourselves with what we really are! I used to think I was large boned and had the same revelation as you - I am medium framed, borderline small!! That astounded me when I found out...
Start weight: 225.5 lbs Feb 13 2012. Height: 5'7"
Primal low: 186 lbs
Current weight: 218 lbs
S.T. goals: stabilize hormones, JUDDD, sleep early and long
LTG: Find my sweet spot with which foods work for me and start losing weight
Goal weight: 135 lbs
Just take it one bite at a time ...