And appearances can be deceiving. My hubby makes a good living. I'm a sahm. He likes me to dress a little tarty. Not prostitute tarty, but he likes it when I show off the goods (cleavage, lots of leg). I am certain that people who know us superficially or we meet at parties think that I am the typical gold-digger bitch. (Probably doesn't help that I am opinionated.) What they don't know is that he and I met when we were 16... way before he was earning any $$. lol
Yeah- I was all WTF? I get being too busy at times- but sex is fun. Not a chore at all when you are attracted to your spouse.OMG! I would DIE!
Sadly- they all take the anti depressents- in fact the holiday gossip was one lady caught her husband for the 5th time cheating. Honey, when you catch him 5 times, you just get divorced or call it an open marriage and be done with it. Oh the drama- they had to up her meds, the "suicide" attempt, the demonization of the husband. My recommendation to go find some hot guy and get laid as revenge was frowned upon. :-(
If I were only having sex with my husband once or twice a year, I would fully expect him to have an affair. Hell, I'm surprised these women don't actually encourage their husbands to have affairs.
Haha, these ladies are not my besties- they are friends of a friend and come with the territory. I don't worry about what they think of me and they are entertaining in small doses. I actually do see my friend picking up their traits and can sense her husbands growing annoyance.It sounds like you need to find some new friends.
I actually see it a lot- guys get sucked in by really pretty women in their mid 20's. They were all very (visually) attractive at the time and still are today.
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