
Originally Posted by
auntie thesis
Re:
the dude bros of paleo/primal land.
(Sarcasm shall be noted! I'm not knocking the effort and dedication of the He-Groks at all. Just venting here in the ladies thread.
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Those guys who used to be out of shape video game nerds and now thanks to the power of primal food....they're in the BEST SHAPE of their lives and have 12 packs (like a 6 pack only better?? something like that.) I'm so tired of those success stories on MDA. 80% are dude bros, 10% are hardcore athletes who only went primal to improve their performance and 10% are actually encouraging. Personally, dude bros piss me off the most because it's not that hard for a motivated young-ish guy with no serious health or mobility issues to lose weight. Hell, my dad went from 435 to 290 in a year on Atkins when he was in his late 40s so I know even older guys can lose weight.
All I'm saying is that it doesn't encourage me to keep going because dude bro 599 used to eat McD's 5 times a day and never ran or lifted anything heavier than a cold brewsky and now he's a ripped Adonis who loves doing CrossFit and finally married the girl of his dreams on the beach.
Rant finished.
As for me, I gave in to Christmas temptation....damn you homemade macaroons with your dark chocolate dip. I'm back on the Primal wagon next week though...two birthdays this week will probably derail me even further. I know for a fact my sister is going all out for her 40th next weekend...southern style buffet and an open bar. Woot! Plus my oldest nephlet is turning 8 on Friday. Most likely a pizza party which I can try to eat around.
Thanks. I got a laugh.
I don't disparage the dude bros and their awesome body changes at all either. As women, we have a different pressure on us than men do. We look around in our culture and emaciated is what we are trained to aspire to. Then we come here and ripped is held as the ideal. Some of us may not be able to become so ripped without chemical help, you know? Some of us have had many children. Some of us are older. Some of us don't even want to be ripped.
What I like about the Protein Power book is how there are calculations you can do to find your ideal weight, and they flat out tell you that any weight charts you may have seen in the past are likely to be unrealistic, especially if you are older. I did the calculations and was surprised I was only 2lbs from the upper end of my ideal range. And rather than let the pressure to be model thin or Staci ripped get to my head, I let Protein Power's calculations knock it into my skull that I am not a big bag of blubber walking down the street having everyone point and laugh (I spent decades of my life afraid to walk across a street in public for fear of that). I'm actually normal weight. Maybe people look at me with jealousy for all I know. Anyway, I am letting this paleo diet thing just work its magic on me, whatever that may be. Whether it results in more weight loss, better health or both, I'm pretty happy. I may try to help the weight loss along further with additional efforts or I may not. It's not a sign of strength or weakness either way, no matter what some dude bros might think. Anyway, this is to say that I guess in a way I've settled or maybe I've just grown up and am learning to accept myself. I don't know. But having dude bros be my role models doesn't quite work for me at my stage in life.
Female, 5'3", 48, Starting weight: 163lbs. Current weight: 135.
Starting bench press: 30lbs. Current bench press: 75lbs.