Ruth, the beauty of the internet is that we found each other, the sad part of it is that we are so far apart. I would definitely have everyone over here! My BFF lives in her DH's grandmother's home, it needs some work, and they are in a discussion about how to do them or if they should just do a reno, etc (for as long as I have known them, 7 years and counting!) so we always meet at our house. We met at church, and we all consider ourselves very lucky to have found each other.