Ayla, goodness, that was an absolutely incredible story. I am sorry to hear about the cross fit place. Not nice at all, and you don't forget being treated like that in a hurry.
As for your wedding photos, look on them with pride - I am sure it was a really special day.
However....are you listening to this here old gwumpy gwamma ??????.... from what I have read about you, you are an amazing person, who is doing amazing things, with an amazing family....... Your journey started along time ago, in fact about the day you were born, and it won't end for many years to come. What you have achieved is absolutely awesome, and irrelevent of your weight number.
One thing that I have figured in my 49 years - is - people get jealous, for a variety of reasons, and thats there problem-not yours....what you need to remind yourself is this YOU ARE AMAZING !!!!! sorry I don't mean to yell, but I think that alot of us can identify with your story, and we blame ourselves, or this or that - but we don't have to blame ourselves for anything.
We are who we are, and we must accept and enjoy ourselves for who we are - and you my girl are incredible.
Keep at it, and we will be there for you, just like you have been there for us
"never let the truth get in the way of a good story "