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Rough situation. There are ways to make vegetables enjoyable for nearly anyone. As for fruit, you need to go easy on it.
Organic is wonderful, but not necessary for primal.
Can you find some quick primal recipes you could offer to make?
You gotta ditch the grains to lose that gut. No way around it.