I'm sorry to hear about your sister- but I'm glad the meds work for her! Yeah, I don't get that idea that it's not "real." I mean, sure, it's hard to grasp for someone who's had no exposure to it- but there are a lot of real things I can't wrap my mind around. That doesn't mean I dismiss them. I just don't get them. Meds never really did me much good- but when I'm on my supps they do work. That means that there is a chemical imbalance. It might be partially malnourishment- but given how much my mind is like the rest of my family- I don't think it's because I ate too much spaghetti after I moved out.