Hi Mclean. Welcome.
Sorry, the bowl of fruit & fiber should be one of the first things to go. Milk is fine if you can digest it. But it may slow weight loss. Grain fiber isn't what it's cracked up to be. Get your fiber from veg. Grains may have lots of nutrients in them but your body isn't designed to extract them. In fact, they keep your body from using other nutrients.
You don't have to go into ketosis. Roughly 50-100 grams of carb per day should lead to weight loss. Ketosis isn't bad but this isn't Atikins.
Many here love and eat lots of bacon, particularly when they are starting out. Traditional, whole hog sausage, without chemicals, soy and other fillers, is great. Just be careful about what's in it. You probably should focus on unprocessed meats.