she can have a paleo snack. my son does.
also, we allow our son to have the "school snack" which is not at all optimal for us, but hey, whatever. they have rice balls in tamari sauce on mondays, and home-made (at the kindy, by the kids) gluten-free "buns" (bread balls) on tuesdays. they also ahve a fruit picnic earlier in the day.
DS's snacks are: cheese, nuts, and fruit or yogurt dip plus veggies -- when he's at home, or if i were to 'send' a snack.
for DS's 3rd birthday party next week, we are having meatballs in sauce, plus "veggie noodles" (just sauteed veggies of all kinds cut into ribbons -- cabbage, carrots, bell peppers, etc), and then a vegan (gluten free) cake that a friend of mine is making for the party because i suck at cakes, and her daughter isn't allowed to eat anything, so . . . yeah. I'm making the meat balls without eggs. I don't know how well it's going to work out.