This kind of explains why she prefers to wear leggins or only skinny type jeans. I figure getting the top compressed a bit will help. I have started something new with Lily. When she starts to lose it with temper/melt down, I ask her to come to me and I hug her. tight and for a duration. She has TOTALLY de-escalated each time I have done this. Coincidence? I am now wondering if she has been diagnosed correctly. The research I have done says symptoms for ADHD and MSD look alike.