though I hate to admit it, I really think that tracking, at least in the notes, is essential. For me, I will think oh that day was pretty good, then start to put everything down and shock myself. On the days that I can track as I go, or close to it, I do much better.
For you, my memory is that this past 2 weeks for you have been about figuring out the details of what will work for you. I am not surprised you did not lose a great deal of weight, though I am kinda surprised you didn't lose at least some water weight (remembering to take all your meds?).
Be patient, I think you should be focusing on those foods that promote you feeling good/healthy and hopefully once you get that pinned down then you can start to focus on seeing the scale going back down. Once you feel physically good/healthy, then you can more easily deal with the stresses of your life and get good sleep I bet the weight just flies off.
I am sorry that I have no words of wisdom for your situation with your DD though. Hugs.