catching up with all that happening in your world! HOLY MOLY! The 10th is coming soon and then things will begin to calm down and settle in again.
Its good to hear Lily is going with the flow and not making things more difficult.
And I totally agree with the others............. focus on the move, and try to minimize the foods that will cause you to feel bad. It might feel good in the moment to eat something that gives you an emotional boost...... but if you end up with a physical issue then try really hard to make the better choice.