It's nice you have someone who's got your back! That's something I've searched for high and low, friends/ bf, but never found and had to rely for on myself (and my brain is sometimes too damaged to be of any help).
It's really important to have an outside view sometimes...
Sometimes I think about getting therapy too but I'm too chicken (and too poor). Glad you've got someone that helps you figure things out.
"The penis is the male animal-flower, a soft-firm dildo, a warm dream."
-Raymond Peat, PhD