Hi there! I've been reading your journal for awhile now. Depression is something I have struggled with since my teens. I still take 10 mg of Lexapro daily but I am considering weaning myself off from it...I've made the mistake of stopping my meds in the past and falling apart, though, so I'm a little wary. But I really admire you for taking charge of your mental health the primal way.
I'm not sure why your boyfriend might make things you can't eat, but I hope you can still get what you need. I have no idea if this helps, but my husband is not primal but does the cooking. So, he ends up cooking himself a lot of sides of rice, or having bread on the side.
Good luck with your Whole 30 +! Looking forward to seeing how you feel at the end!