Okay, vent-time (got a lot on my mind today I guess).
 Decided to scrap the vent. I figured some stuff out re: finances. The solution is to really combine our finances, I'm just not sure how to do that. I feel weird spending money from a joint account on things that are just for me. I buy a lot of random stuff that is all in the name of my health. I guess it's time to review my spending habits. The answer is probably to give each of us allowances based on our monthly (combined) income.