Hey, hang in there. Hulky's almost home.
Moving is stressful. I absolutely hate it. Do you have anyone who can help you move all that furniture? Sometimes you need two guys to help you if you have big furniture.
As for the honeymoon fund--do you think people haven't contributed because you guys didn't have an official wedding? I know you surprised everyone by getting married at your engagement party. I have friends who asked for money (essentially a honeymoon fund) instead of wedding gifts, and it's usually worked out. But they did have official weddings and wedding registries where the guests were able to contribute money.