I think there must be more to the story than he just doesn't like traffic so you can fight the rain and lightening ??? If that is the whole story then I'd like to have a word with this young man!!!! You're about to become his WIFE and he is suppose to love and protect you!!!
Please tell us there is more to this story.......... if not - I'm siding with canio on this one ---- CALL IT OFF!! You don't want to marry a jerk who would rather have you ride you're bike in the rain and lightening storms instead of having to sit through a little rush hour traffic. HOLY CRAP that makes me angry!!!!