Happy Alive-a-versary! Biiiiiig (non-lesbian) hug!
You might like some of her other blog posts, too. She doesn't write about nice things, but she writes very well about things that make you think.
I recently had a conversation with a friend and her son (both are older than me) where he noted that he wasn't interested in a bi person because he "didn't like to share." I piped in with the idea that bi was always straight enough for me. The mom said that was TMI. What did I say? I didn't think it was that TMI or I wouldn't have said it.