I'm working on my first two jars myself (one virgin, one refined), and the stuff has been completely liquified since the first night after I bought it thanks to the Texas summer heat. If I hadn't read about cocunut oil one these forums, I think it would have freaked me out a bit to see that it had melted in the pantry!
We must learn to do what the leaf and the whale and the wind do of their own nature. We must learn to keep the balance. Having intelligence, we must not act in ignorance. Having choice, we must not act without responsibility
-Sparrowhawk, The Farthest Shore by Ursula K. LeGuin