When you take the red pill, there's no going back
Prioritize: What's most important to you to change in your life, right now?
Focus: What things most stand in the way of your achieving your goals?
Finally, this quote from Greg Swann seems appropriate:
"Freedom is not freedom from the state. Freedom is not freedom from other people, from your neighbors, your boss, your pushy relatives. Freedom is freedom inside your own mind, freedom from the torture and imprisonment of your ego in Room 101, the dungeon of the psyche. If you are free in your mind, you can find a way to liberate yourself from your pushy relations and your snoopy neighbors. If you are free in your mind, you can work by whatever means seem best toward liberation from the state. But if you are enslaved by lies or shame or humiliation or doubt or fear, you cannot be free no matter what your external circumstances."
Give me a friendly Christian any day over an asshole atheist.