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    What's Your view on 'cheats'?

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    I've been lurking on the forums recently and i've seen mentions of cheats. Out of curiosity i was wondering what everyone thought about food cheats? are they an occasional indulgence, a nightly treat, or a big no no? I've seen some pretty good arguements for every view and i don't really have an opinion..yet. So...what's your view?
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    For me at least, cheats aren't something I plan for, they just happen sometimes. Hopefully they'll happen less and less often as I get better at cooking and friends understand what Primal really is (and maybe even get on board with it).

    I do remember hearing somewhere that, if you absolutely feel like you must cheat, at least try to go gluten- free with it.
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    When I go to movies I'll take in a bag of cashews, pistachios and golden raisins (about an entire cup and half of the stuff, so yeah, it's not low calorie or low sugar l in the least. XD ) When I'm feeling badly about that butter I put on something, or the way too many dried fruits I just inhaled, sometimes I stop and consider how far I've come from the standard American diet that the foods I consider cheats are ones that I used to consider unappealing health foods or condiments that didn't count.

    One thing I am never touching again is gluten. Any time I've caved and eaten it, it's taken me a week or more to get out of the mental fog and tiredness that stuff induces. Not worth it.

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    Don't worry about them. I've always found that inevitably the stricter I attempt to be, the greater the collapse is down the road. If you have a little ice cream now and again it should help you keep a little sanity and joy in your life.

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    I don't think of foods in terms of cheats or not.

    I simply figure out my values and follow them.

    What I like about PB is that it allows for me to live in a modern way that is simple both personally and socially. When my students bought me the local dessert, I didn't decline. I ate it. It was not a "cheat" it was a gift, a social welcoming, and within that 20%. If i stayed up late chatting with new friends, not a "cheat" -- it's part of the 20%.

    It is true that I hew toward 100%, with the understanding that I"ll miss a few on those days too (be 98% or whatever), but then every now and again there are days when i'm "hitting the 20%" very hard -- just due to whatever is up in that moment.

    Yesterday, for example, we started moving into our new place, and our friends ambushed us with ginger beer and fish and chips from the local shop. It was such a sweet surprise and I was so happy that they were so nice. I ate so many fish and chips and ginger beers (on, one fillet, lots of chips, and one ginger beer). Definitely not an every day occurrance you know.

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    I think it also depends on your personal situation as well. If you don't have any extra weight to lose and have no health concerns that could be aggravated, then a cheat is not such a big deal. If you are trying to make some progress toward a goal it's different. Some people accuse Griff of being a hard ass about absolutely no cheats but, given the health obstacles he has battled, I totally agree with him. The falling off the horse and having to climb back on process in no way keeps you sane, it just makes the whole journey harder and longer. I save my cheats for things that are genuinely beyond my control in a social situation where I don't want to be disrespectful e.g. dinner at a friends house and the salad dressing has canola oil in it. Or dinner out with friends at an Asian place where the sauce may have some soy in it. Cake at a birthday party is not beyond my control. I just politely decline and move on.

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    circumstances are usually everything in the decision making process. Ryan and I are lean and no health problems, so voila, no problems with fish-n-chips. But i would not feed such a thing to The Griff. Unless it was my home made fish with my home made celeriac chips (if he would have those) or kale crisps (if he would have those). I also wouldn't be offended if The Griff turned them all down.

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    My aim is to make the best choice I can for very meal. Sometimes the options are limited, e.g. Work canteen, so i make a choice that is less than optimal, but it is the best choice available. I eat, don't worry about it and move on. E.g. On Friday the choices were pizza, chicken pie or battered fish. I had battered fish with peas (only veg choice) and didn't eat the batter. Not great, not the end of the world.

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    I occasionally have a cheat meal, like I let myself have pizza last night and I really regretted it!! It didn't taste great an I felt crap after I ate it. And today I have a headache.

    If I'm stuck in a corner with no choice I'll try and choose the least harmful option. As long as you're straight back on to PB and you don't make it a regular habit then it's not the end of the world.

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    First off, I dislike the use of "cheat," "bad," "good," "no-no," etc. with regard to food. This isn't a moral issue, although many of us have deeply ingrained issues that relate our self worth to how "good" we've been on our diet.

    I see it as, all of life is one big series of choices, and sometimes there are better choices I could've made, and there are worse choices I could have made. And my life is one continual effort to make better and better choices.

    The reason we avoid "cheats" isn't because they're bad or a no-no, but because the cheat foods aren't good for our bodies. Some people around here are so sensitive to certain "cheat" foods that they can't even tolerate one bite lest they get diarrhea/acne/aches & pains/etc. So, YMMV based on what your body will tolerate.

    If you need a nightly treat, try taking a candlelit bubble bath.

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