Women seem to hate honesty of that kind because it doesn't fit into their weird view of how men are supposed to be, I guess; it doesn't give them anything to create drama around. While that's a gross generalization, it's been spot-on for me, anecdotally, over the past few months of me attempting to date (and growing more and more fucking bored). I'm sure guys are the same way for no-nonsense women who know what they want! I just find that the older people get, the more they emotionally regress. I swear most women I date treat dating and their dates like it was a Grade 7 dance in the fucking school gym.
On my more aggressive/cynical days, I consider having a shirt made that simply says "Seriously: Wanna Fuck?" That's not what I'm all about, to be honest, but some days I think I should be; perhaps things would be a lot simpler. Of course, they could be a great deal worse, as well.
. . . .Then I think about just adopting another cat, but it would be a rebound cat. I'm still not totally over having had to put down my awesome, old, little Pele-monster last spring. I miss my stealth kitty.