i know that feeling. i met my husband very young, so it was never a worry for me (i was 19 when i met him). but, i do think that by the time i was 22-24, i might have worked through the issues and gone ahead with the sort of fun amberlee is talking about. just going out and getting some.
yeah, i think by then i might have gotten through it.
Friends with benefits is the way to go. You know them and you have the trust. Mine is the best. We love having sex with each other but are both too busy for a relationship. He's my 2 times a week boyfriend.
"The mountains are calling and I must go."
"I don't know what's wrong with me, but I love this shit."
"Think like a geek. Eat like a hunter. Train like a fighter. Look like a model. Live beyond."
mal- good for you for protecting yourself. i have nothing against casual, unattached sex, BUT if a person knows they're likely to become attached it makes sense to protect against that. i think just the fact that you're feeling a little randy might mean your fertility is returning.
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my primal journal:
Ah this thread is making me wish I hadn't had a row with my husband lol.
You have sites like this in the states though right . http://www.lovehoney.co.uk Not the same as the real thing I know but still.
Gluten intolerance and hypermobility syndrome http://www.cfids.org/pdf/joint-hypermobility-guide.pdf
Eat food. Mostly real. Enjoy life.
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"Do not ask what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive."
HA! I love this thread.
Amberlee, I fully support giving into those urges of yours, what the hell is point in life if you can't just give into the moment and get it on from time to time.
Mal, I really respect that you are holding out because you know you will grow attached; nothing is more bizzare to me than the women who use sex to force a dude into a relationship because they put so much meaning into a one night stand.
My whole life, I've felt like an animal......but I've ignored my instincts. I ignored what I really am. That will never happen again.