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    Quote Originally Posted by Beastman View Post
    Dear god.... I'm scared to click that.

    Though exercising for sex is something I've definitely done. I started doing more core work when I discovered my favorite position:
    http://www.sexinfo101.com/foldeddeckchair.shtml
    My BF is too big for that one. Not that I'm bragging (much ). He can't penetrate all the way without rearranging my internal organs which can be a little uncomfortable!

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    my kid took a nap and my husband worked out and did his (work) emails. goof ball. lol but, all the same, i also got some work done.

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    yes, in some positions, size does matter and more isn't necessarily better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beastman View Post
    Though exercising for sex is something I've definitely done. I started doing more core work when I discovered my favorite position:http://www.sexinfo101.com/foldeddeckchair.shtml
    OMG, Idk if I could do that. I am in no way flexible. Whenever I've tried something like that, I have trouble breathing.
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    yoga helps with that too.

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    Really zoe? I was just thinking it was my asthma lol. Would there be any particular dvd that you would recommend? My schedule doesn't allow for me to take a class.
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    not really. the best thing is to take a class so that you can be taught. it is honestly easiest.

    that being said, it's not the end of the world to use any number of videos available to you.

    the real trick with asthma is to be able to increase lung capacity over time. this comes from breathing properly, which you can learn in yoga, or go swimming. swimming is great for asthmatics.

    the other issue could be compression in that position. if he's putting his weight too low, and pushing the knees toward the chest (or just in missionary, if he's not bearing his own weight), then this compression of the belly doesn't allow you to get enough space in the lower lung cavity for the lungs to expand into, effectively cutting off the air you can get. also, if you are a shallow breather (and most people are), then this won't matter so much, but the increased need for oxygen that activity creates can lead to a feeling (again) of not getting enough air.

    this is compounded with asthma, honestly, but sometimes the shortness of breath is from this exertion and lack of lung capacity, more so than actual bronchial constriction. but it effectively feels the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NourishedEm View Post
    My BF is too big for that one. Not that I'm bragging (much ). He can't penetrate all the way without rearranging my internal organs which can be a little uncomfortable!
    oh Sims f***ing!
    i know the feeling. it's also kind of a passive position, which can be fun, but isn't always.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Minxxa View Post
    My personal thoughts are that although in our society now we have all kinds of "visuals" about sex... from magazines to commercials to online porn... but we have very few realistic visuals regarding sex. You can't learn good sex from porn. And because we don't have realistic visuals people see things in movies where the guy just puts it in and all of a sudden it's fireworks. Only about 30% of women can orgasm from vaginal sex alone... that means the vast majority of women need some clitorial stimulation to make it happen... and you rarely EVER see that in the movies.

    Also, because sex is such a sticky issue (ha, ha, couldn't resist!) we don't really talk about it... or not much... or not honestly. And we definitely don't educate people on how to have a happy and satisfied sex life. Sex is so complicated because it's physical, physiological, emotional and mental, and any of those things if they're off can affect your ability to enjoy yourself and/or orgasm.

    While I think it's true that women do need to be able to communicate what works for them to their partners (because we are ALL different and what works for one might feel blyeah to another), I think women first need to find out for themselves what might work or feel good. Some self-exploration, if you will. Because if they don't know, they can't tell anybody else. And to do that, we really need to educate women about it better so that they can then figure out what works for them.


    I mean, we don't send people out driving without both classwork and behind the wheel training... why do we do that with sex?
    I really doubt that increased education is the answer. The human race has been having sex for a really long time and managed to do ok with no instruction. In fact, the increased focus on the sex act itself is part of the problem. Focusing on the sex act (i.e technical aspect) even more will not help matters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bushrat View Post
    I really doubt that increased education is the answer. The human race has been having sex for a really long time and managed to do ok with no instruction. In fact, the increased focus on the sex act itself is part of the problem. Focusing on the sex act (i.e technical aspect) even more will not help matters.
    You're talking plain old pro-creational sex. You're not talking GOOD recreational sex, where both parties get as much enjoyment out of it as possible.

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