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    Quote Originally Posted by geostump View Post
    We still do have sex and right now, he has no problem in that area other than me. It isn't like before he was diagnosed as a type 2 diabetic. He wants me all the time, I sort of want others. Now last night, I was actually turned on briefly by him and I haven't been turned on by him in about a yr. He's been working out, eating about 60% primally and lying in bed I rubbed my hand on his torso and I could actually feel his rib cage. In our 15 yrs together, I have never felt that on him. He's lost almost 4" in his waist which for him is pretty damn good.
    He wants you all the time? That sounds really great for you. Does he not give you orgasms? Most women including Mrs Grizz needs manual stimulation to get a wall shaking orgasm. If this is the case, men just don't have a clue about the anatomy of women. Even those men who think they know - don't.

    Here is a fantastic link that illustrates the massive size & shape of the Clitoris.
    http://www.ed-sim.com/en/home#tabs-page-1

    It looks very much like an eagle with its wings spread apart. I must admit that this link was responsible for giving Mrs Grizz the best wall shaking orgasms EVER. Even I, the Grizz, had not a clue about the massive size of that female flower. Might help if your DH sees this link?

    Hope this helps,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herbwifemama View Post
    ...but I have other "weirdo markers" (cloth diapers anyone?) and "my people" can tell who I am, and if they think I'm weird, I don't want to waste my time anyway.
    cloth diapers are weird?? i was thinking about buying some disposable diapers recently (baby has a rash, and i wanted to use a little ointment on him, and also strip all of the diapers), and i was thinking about how i REALLY didn't want to buy a whole fracking package of diapers...anyway, i think i have a lot of other weird markers too, like the (intentionally) fermenting food in my fridge and on my counter, the (intentionally) rotting food scraps in a bucket on my deck, the fact that i want to tear down the swing set and put up some gymnastic bars (first i need to convince the kids!)... the list goes on! it seems this is the place for weird.

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    Heh, I like where this thread went. Hilarious! I love kayaking. I like to go with someone else sometimes, but it's also great to go kayaking solo. I've been in some small kayaking groups but that's not usual. I love stroking powerfully through the event, but breaks and rests to enjoy the scenery are key too, and I certainly don't mind getting wet. My new craft is pretty big, but I think I can handle it fairly well. I like to go kayaking any time I can - even in cold weather!

    Bonus lame ollllld joke: Why is Macro-Brew beer like having sex in a canoe? Because it's f*cking close to water.
    you are funny (and lewd!! tsk. tsk.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grizz View Post
    He wants you all the time? That sounds really great for you. Does he not give you orgasms? Most women including Mrs Grizz needs manual stimulation to get a wall shaking orgasm. If this is the case, men just don't have a clue about the anatomy of women. Even those men who think they know - don't.

    Here is a fantastic link that illustrates the massive size & shape of the Clitoris.
    http://www.ed-sim.com/en/home#tabs-page-1

    It looks very much like an eagle with its wings spread apart. I must admit that this link was responsible for giving Mrs Grizz the best wall shaking orgasms EVER. Even I, the Grizz, had not a clue about the massive size of that female flower. Might help if your DH sees this link?

    Hope this helps,
    Grizz
    I've tried showing him things like this but he won't look. He says "I know what I'm doing, I don't need any help". This has been a few yrs ago so I just stopped trying. Now he's the one fed up and I've grown used to how things are. Kind of odd how things change
    Georgette

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    Quote Originally Posted by geostump View Post
    I've tried showing him things like this but he won't look. He says "I know what I'm doing, I don't need any help". This has been a few yrs ago so I just stopped trying. Now he's the one fed up and I've grown used to how things are. Kind of odd how things change
    My oh my, he sounds like a wham bam, thank you ma'am kind of guy? Life is too short for such a shallow & self interested person. Perhaps he needs a shakeup. Would it help to demand visiting a sex counselor OR ELSE? I don't think you should put up with this for years longer.

    If my wife & I were sexually incompatible, it would be over with very quickly. I would be the first to visit the free dating service,
    http://www.plentyoffish.com/
    There are about 50 lonely women in my neighbor's age group listed there within 15 miles. He was having BAD problems with his girlfriend, so I got him started at Plenty of Fish.com.

    PS) You are really cute & attractive,


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    Sex is primal, so it makes sense that changing to primal diet would enhance all apects of one's life. You youngsters might be surprized to know that men and women can enjoy active, satisfying sex even in their 70s, 80s, and beyond.
    This time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it. Ralph Waldo Emerson

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grizz View Post
    My oh my, he sounds like a wham bam, thank you ma'am kind of guy? Life is too short for such a shallow & self interested person. Perhaps he needs a shakeup. Would it help to demand visiting a sex counselor OR ELSE? I don't think you should put up with this for years longer.
    If my wife & I were sexually incompatible, it would be over with very quickly.
    The women of my family are tell it like it is wise asses. A proud tradition. From my sister : "Life is too short for bad sex." From my grandmother at age 98, "I think your grandfather learned everything he ever knew about sex in a barn." She also was the one who, consoling me after my first puppy love breakup said, "Men are like streetcars, if you miss one, don't worry about it too much. There will be another one along in ten minutes."

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    Pretty much described him to a T Grizz. If I had health insurance I may try that but I don't even know if I would be willing to see one. I think that would be worse then seeing a marriage counselor. I'm actually afraid to tell him how bad it is for me.
    Georgette

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paleobird View Post
    "Men are like streetcars, if you miss one, don't worry about it too much. There will be another one along in ten minutes."
    Unfortunately, that has never been my experience. Not sure if I have put up this barrier between the opposite sex and myself, but I've only dated 3 people in my entire life and I married the last one. The first 2 guys I dated were blips on the radar so to speak.
    Georgette

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    i think it's important to be honest.

    if it is really that bad for you, it's time to come up with a solution. that could take any number of forms.

    if the relationship is worth saving (in your mind) then at this point, counseling may be the only way to do so. and, if you want to save it, you may have to do the leg work.

    if you don't want to save it, then you need to start looking at that seriously and talking to him about it. if he wants to save it and you are willing, then he will get counseling and you will go with him and see what is what.

    a friend of mine did this. she wanted to save her marriage, she told him how bad it was for her, she did all of the leg work of finding a counselor and making the appointments. he went to "humor" her figuring that she would "work through it and things will go back to normal." he wasn't listening, until the day she said "i want a divorce." she's happy now (and in a different relationship), and he's engaged to someone else, so there it is. people can and do move on too. they, though, didn't have any kids.

    i think that your husband would not respond well to an open relaitonship.

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    I'm still on the fence either way. I don't see us doing any splitting until the youngest were to be out of the house and that's another 9 yrs down the line. We really truly get along great other than this one area. Like I've said, I've gotten used to things. I figure if he wants to change, he'll let me know.
    Georgette

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