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    I Am An Assertive Woman Now! (Did I just Roar?)

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    I feel like I am a different person now. Things, people and issues that used to bother or scare me just... don't anymore.

    I ripped an old friend who I've always had a problem with "a new one" when he started in on something. All the old self-help books, all the verbal judo advice I had read, learned, and integrated fell to the wayside after I said what had to be said, in the perfect way, with the perfect tone, with the perfect eye-contact...all automatically!

    Another issue that had put me in a mental, emotional and spiritual breakdown for years I looked at the other day and thought... "Eh...! Who cares." And I really *don't*!

    My whole makeup now is "I am an Alpha, everything else is my equal, subordinate, or prey." Last year it was more, "I hope they're not mad at me, maybe I better apologize or hide?"

    Has anyone else felt this way since PB? I'd like to hear especially from other women.

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    No, but I love the new attitude, and I hope that happens to me too!

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    I've always felt like an alpha. PB didn't change that but it may be one of the reasons why it feels very right for me. It also could be that I really like steak.

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    I've never been assertive. I'd just like to get to the point where I don't give a crap anymore about things. I'm figuring if I became assertive, I would then be able to tell my husband simple truths about things and I'm more worried about hurting his feelings versus me being happy.
    Georgette

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    mmm......geostump....I can relate!

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    janagram, all I can say is thank goodness for friends! I know a lot of people don't agree with that but after 14 years and trying to get him to change, sometimes you have to try something else.
    Georgette

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    i was already like this. perhaps i am 'worse' now.

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    Have always been assertive, but some people know the right buttons to push that make me crumble. Lately, that hasn't happened. A few people have tried with the drama crap, and I've been calling them out on it instead of reacting emotionally. Feels good.

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    "I am an Alpha, everything else is my equal, subordinate, or prey."
    I have this attitude (which pairs well with being an Aries) but it didn't come with Primal so much as it did with weight loss in general.

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