Well JPA, while I can't say whether or not it's right I can definitely sympathize with your way of eating. I eat usually only two meals a day but I just can't seem to control my portions and I end up feeling like I put down more food in one sitting than most people eat in a day. And I also usually make myself a dessert of some kind over the weekend, last weekend it was pumpkin pie for instance and I put away half of the pie with generous amounts of coconut cream and butter. For me I think it's mostly a comfort thing, I'm not hungry but I feel like eating will make things better or at least be a temporary distraction from the hardships of life. All I can say is that I am trying to put things in perspective, if I am eating big meals but still feeling good and keeping my weight where I like it then what the heck? If it brings you joy and isn't causing you any harm I say go for it.