Well marcadav, you may be right and sometimes I am overwhelmed with the feeling that 20 years ago I married the wrong man (for me).
You all may wonder why I would stay in such a situation. Right now our son Kevin is nine. He has a severe level of Asperger's syndrome bordering on full autism. A divorce would set him back years. When my Mom died, he went through a full year of extreme anger and insecurity. Constantly asking, "Where's Nana?" And begging us not to leave to go to work or wherever. It was heart breaking. Imagine if his family broke up.
I have hope that the situation with my husband may improve as he follows his dreams to work in a hospital and regains his health. I love him and he loves me. I just don't like him very much lately. He would be extremely hurt and shocked if he ever read what I write here. I don't think he realizes just how "mean" he is, but he senses my unhappiness.
Here is the blurb he sent me under the title of "Now you can say "I told you so". I was meant to be funny and I saw it that way.
Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man
The Virgo woman will be dominated by a Scorpio man. On a date this might seem fun and frisky but in relationship things could become complicated if these signs want more from each other than sex. The Virgo woman is humble and self deprecating. She carefully plans. The Scorpio man is intense, magnetic and controlling. He controls his world by knowing and insists on knowing better than the Virgo woman. This causes problems because he inadvertently makes the Virgo woman question her own intelligence. During sex the Scorpio man will make his Virgo woman tremble with delight and fear all in the same breath. Now that she’s surrendered to his ecstasy, they both know who will be permanently in charge of things.