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    Quote Originally Posted by Pebbles67 View Post
    Well, I had to tell him because his cousin would have joked about it at Billy's party. It was stupid for me not to pay the small fee and he was rightfully annoyed, but he stayed mad all evening, which was even dumber.
    STOP that!
    Seriously.

    It was a silly mistake. You thought you could handle it/knew how to turn it on... and you didn't.
    It was not "stupid".
    When your brother-in-Law showed up and did it correctly did you watch so you can do it next time maybe?
    You guys are on a budget, trying to save that money should be commended even if it leads to a silly situation.

    Anyway.
    That self blame shit because your husband blames needs to go right out the window.
    It was a tiny little mistake and should not have even been anything other than a chuckle... as in "LOL, shit happens silly girl... here, I'll show you the right way to do it so that next time you have to be here alone when they fill the tank you can do it without any worry."
    Full stop.

    Sorry for the for the four letter words, to those offended by them but I'm steamed under the collar for you.
    I have held off a few times lately... Paula, do not absorb his language/opinions of you. The "stupids" and the "less thans" and the "not good enoughs".
    You are so much more than that!

    /rant

    Big hugs.
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    Ah, cori, how do I love thee, let me count the ways 1001, 1002, 1003....


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    I almost wrote something like what cori said. She is so right! How about you saved the $20 so that you could go out with him? Money s tight. You did well!

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    ^All of the above, especially cori hope its all good though

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    Let me be clear. I don't feel stupid for thinking I could do it. It was a stupid move knowing the current state of mind of my husband. I want you all to know that he hasn't always been such a jerk. As he hit middle age, all his worst personality traits have become magnified. The other day he sent me something that said Virgo women and Scorpio men don't do well in long term relationships due to the Virgo's need to please and the Scorpio's controlling nature. It was so true it was funny. I'll try to copy and paste it here.

    FYI, Any time things are repaired or replaced in our home, it is me who does it. I love working with my hands. And Yes, I watched cousin Tito bleed the line so I can do it next time.

    Today I put together a new bunk bed for my sons. It has a full size bed on the bottom for my 15 yr old who is now 6ft tall. The twin on top will be for Kevin.
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    Paula, I think your continually walking on, what seems to be, eggshells, is not doing anyone any good. Your husband may never change. However there is no reason to even try when he blames you for everything, takes his moods out on you, and you eat it up--both literally and figuratively.

    I really want you to find your voice and boundaries. If not for yourself, then for your sons. They are learning how to treat women from both of you.

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    Paula.......... if I remember correctly you're husband is on testosterone injections? I wonder if his dose needs to be adjusted. Either too much or too little can mess with a mans personality. Perhaps its time for a checkup?
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    When I do something "stupid" and have to go to a friend or neighbor for help, I just kindly ask them to not bring it up in front of Clint. They've witnessed his assholiness treatment of me in those situations and don't like it. Even if the girls see something happen, they don't bring it up.
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    Well marcadav, you may be right and sometimes I am overwhelmed with the feeling that 20 years ago I married the wrong man (for me).

    You all may wonder why I would stay in such a situation. Right now our son Kevin is nine. He has a severe level of Asperger's syndrome bordering on full autism. A divorce would set him back years. When my Mom died, he went through a full year of extreme anger and insecurity. Constantly asking, "Where's Nana?" And begging us not to leave to go to work or wherever. It was heart breaking. Imagine if his family broke up.

    I have hope that the situation with my husband may improve as he follows his dreams to work in a hospital and regains his health. I love him and he loves me. I just don't like him very much lately. He would be extremely hurt and shocked if he ever read what I write here. I don't think he realizes just how "mean" he is, but he senses my unhappiness.

    Here is the blurb he sent me under the title of "Now you can say "I told you so". I was meant to be funny and I saw it that way.

    Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man
    The Virgo woman will be dominated by a Scorpio man. On a date this might seem fun and frisky but in relationship things could become complicated if these signs want more from each other than sex. The Virgo woman is humble and self deprecating. She carefully plans. The Scorpio man is intense, magnetic and controlling. He controls his world by knowing and insists on knowing better than the Virgo woman. This causes problems because he inadvertently makes the Virgo woman question her own intelligence. During sex the Scorpio man will make his Virgo woman tremble with delight and fear all in the same breath. Now that she’s surrendered to his ecstasy, they both know who will be permanently in charge of things.
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    Tomi, He is on the daily cream, not the injections. Last time he was tested, his levels were fine.

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