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    hugs P. Many, many hugs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by canio6 View Post
    Eventually, your husband will pull his head out of his ass or suffocate, at this point I could live with either.
    This is all that needs to be said, really...

    But, b/c I'm me and I often speak when it is unnecessary, I am going to speak.

    I don't know your husband and will likely never meet him, but I do not like him one bit. He's bullying you and I don't like it. He's definitely got sand in his crotch about something and he needs to get it figured out and FIXED b/c the way he's treating you is absolutely unacceptable.

    I once told Brad that he will NOT continue to treat me the way he had been treating me (once when he was constantly pissy like Bill is) and that if he continued to do so he could practice putting EX in front of wife b/c I was not going to put up with it. Or maybe I told him to stop treating me like an ex-wife unless he wanted me to become one... either way, same point was made.

    It might be high time to tell Bill something similar b/c maybe he doesn't realize that he's being so mean and brash and hard to get along with b/c (no offense to the wonderful men here), he's a man and doesn't think like us.

    Or ask him if he'd tolerate a man treating his mother like that - or treating his daughter like that, had he had a daughter (I can use both on Brad).

    Anyhow, hugs to you. From reading my journal you know I have a difficult one too, so I know what you're dealing with. Lots of hugs and words of encouragement to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jenn26point2 View Post
    This is all that needs to be said, really...

    But, b/c I'm me and I often speak when it is unnecessary, I am going to speak.

    I don't know your husband and will likely never meet him, but I do not like him one bit. He's bullying you and I don't like it. He's definitely got sand in his crotch about something and he needs to get it figured out and FIXED b/c the way he's treating you is absolutely unacceptable.

    I once told Brad that he will NOT continue to treat me the way he had been treating me (once when he was constantly pissy like Bill is) and that if he continued to do so he could practice putting EX in front of wife b/c I was not going to put up with it. Or maybe I told him to stop treating me like an ex-wife unless he wanted me to become one... either way, same point was made.

    It might be high time to tell Bill something similar b/c maybe he doesn't realize that he's being so mean and brash and hard to get along with b/c (no offense to the wonderful men here), he's a man and doesn't think like us.

    Or ask him if he'd tolerate a man treating his mother like that - or treating his daughter like that, had he had a daughter (I can use both on Brad).

    Anyhow, hugs to you. From reading my journal you know I have a difficult one too, so I know what you're dealing with. Lots of hugs and words of encouragement to you.
    This is what I wanted to say, but I think I said it in a kinder gentler way.
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    Thank you for all the love and advice. I think because it is high hormones week, I will hold off on posting much more about us. Unless something new happens. I have read and am thinking about everything you have written.

    I feel really sad right now. I will fight the binge urge the best I can tonight, do my exercises and go to bed early.

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    Paula -- remember that a binge is not a reward or a pleasure - but a punishment to yourself. You deserve to be treated like the wonderful kind person you are............ be good to yourself.
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    my motivation

    Things I choose to let go:

    All grains - including rice
    Refined sugars
    Legumes - including peanut butter
    Nuts and nut butters
    Alcohol and soda
    Chocolate
    Acidic foods, such as pineapple and tomato
    Coffee and tea
    Eggs
    Curry
    White potato
    Dairy - including butter

    I'm choosing to do this......... I don't HAVE to.

    I'm doing this because I'm worth it - because I'm worthy - because I love myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by geostump View Post
    This is what I wanted to say, but I think I said it in a kinder gentler way.
    Yes, Jenn said pretty much what I wanted to say but had to delete so that Tomi's eyes didn't start to bleed if she read it


    Quote Originally Posted by tomi View Post
    You deserve to be treated like the wonderful kind person you are............ be good to yourself.
    Very well said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by canio6 View Post
    Yes, Jenn said pretty much what I wanted to say but had to delete so that Tomi's eyes didn't start to bleed if she read it




    Very well said.
    Mine was the customer service friendly version of Jenn's response.
    Georgette

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    A binge has often been a point of rebellion (an F U if you will) towards my husband often when I feel helpless against his anger.
    Yes. I realize it doesn't hurt anyone but me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pebbles67 View Post
    A binge has often been a point of rebellion (an F U if you will) towards my husband often when I feel helpless against his anger.
    Yes. I realize it doesn't hurt anyone but me.
    Personally, I think the biggest F U is doing what you are doing - getting healthy and happy while he wallows in the shitty situation he is putting himself in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by canio6 View Post
    Yes, Jenn said pretty much what I wanted to say but had to delete so that Tomi's eyes didn't start to bleed if she read it




    Very well said.
    thanks for thinking of me! I can feel the love all the way to Oregon!
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    my motivation

    Things I choose to let go:

    All grains - including rice
    Refined sugars
    Legumes - including peanut butter
    Nuts and nut butters
    Alcohol and soda
    Chocolate
    Acidic foods, such as pineapple and tomato
    Coffee and tea
    Eggs
    Curry
    White potato
    Dairy - including butter

    I'm choosing to do this......... I don't HAVE to.

    I'm doing this because I'm worth it - because I'm worthy - because I love myself.

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