So, about 16 years ago in the middle of my 1st pregnancy, I stopped wearing my wedding ring.. Last April, when I hit 50 pounds lost I put it on again. I have worn it for a couple of special occasions since then, but haven't been wearing it daily mostly due to lack of practice.
Well, I have decided that I need to wear it daily. This Primal Lifestyle has so changed my body and face that I am getting a lot of attention from men.
One guy at work really helped me decide to wear my ring. He is a nice, man who came to work at my school last spring. He had never known me fat and did not know I was married. It dawned on me in October that he was seeking me out on purpose. Up to that point we had only made small talk so there was never a moment to mention my husband The minute that I understood that he might be interested in me, I slipped my husband into our conversation. My Mom had just died, so I was telling him how grateful I was to my husband for saving her life several times. Long story short, he has barely spoken to me since. I feel terrible and have looked back over my behavior to see if I acted in a flirty way. My best friend who happens to be male told me that many nice women don't realize that "niceness" can be misconstrued as "interested". I hope I didn't hurt his feelings or get his hopes up. Maybe he is just pissed at what he perceives as a deception.
From now on I will wear my ring in the hopes of avoiding the above. My husband tells me that I have always been beautiful, but my new self confidence makes me glow. <3
It is so weird for me to get so much attention, because in my head I'm still just me. I keep thinking, "what the hell are you looking at?".lol