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    Quote Originally Posted by marcadav View Post
    I'm sorry Paula but in my opinion your husband seems to set you up. I mean he was the one who didn't come home. Since he knew what was happening HE should have called you to tell you about not being able to get home. If he cared about you he would have made sure you were not worried about him.

    Also, just because he seems to abdicate his part/responsibility in the family's financial situation doesn't mean YOU are at fault or should take the blame. And since he said no about a local tax preparer/turbo tax, then IMO, he should be the one responsible for getting things to his friend.

    I hate to see you hold yourself accountable/at fault for things that you are not solely responsible for.
    ^ that! exactly. He was the one not coming home - hence the responsibility for relaying the reason WHY was on his shoulders! And if he doesn't think you're doing a good job with the finances why doesn't he take on the job himself???? Or take the responsibility of getting it all to his friend (shipping all those important documents seems risky with our current mail system. Why not scan and email it all?

    GRRRR............ thats makes me angery! He should be more considerate and stop blaming!
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    Thanks everyone.

    My husband did call, but the phone was out so it went to voicemail. He had informed of his plan to go to the FH if he couldn't get up the hill. He was mad because I didn't check messages to see if he had gotten to the FH safely or try to call him in the am before he called me. He's right on this one, I made him feel uncared for whether meant to or not.

    I informed my husband of the financial situation. He didn't freak.

    I made the copies of our tax stuff so we can send it off to his friend. I told him that HE had to call his friend tomorrow and let him know we are sending it. I hope the guy suggests we find someone in the area. This is just stupid.

    I am going upstairs to have tea and go to bed.

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    Tomi, excellent idea. My brain is just nonfunctional.

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    My dh is a cpa and he uses turbo tax to do our taxes. How complicated can your taxes be?

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    Not very, We each have one job, one home, three kids. Done.

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    Yay! Me too!

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    The spammers love you, Paula.

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    Paula, you are a magnet for spammers.

    So I obviously dont know much about taxes since I havent done mine for over 20 years but that seems like it would be pretty straight forward. Doesnt seem like money well spent.

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    Who's spamming?

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    Hey traveller, You got lumped in with the two other spammers that hit me last night. Welcome!

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