When I was very heavy and not very happy with myself or him, we had sex on average 1 x per week, which doesn't seem too bad except that he could sense that I wasn't "into" it. I know he was taking care of himself a lot at that time because I would find towels he left around. I've often wondered if he left the evidence on purpose. Now he is either well satisfied or just remembers to put the towels in the hamper. I don't care if he takes care of himself and he doesn't care if I do. I think this is about Viggo.